Reality TV star, Josephine Ijeoma Otabor, popularly known a Phyna, has dished some words of advice to ladies regarding relationship choices.
She told women that they should not settle for broke men when they are done with the dating scene. Phyna added that if it is difficult to find a rich guy to marry, then they should strive to make their own money before marriage.
The Big Brother Naija 2022 winner gave the advice on her Twitter page amid the recent wedding of superstar singer, Davido with Chioma as well as that of actress Sharon Ooja and Ugo Nwoke.
Her statement stirred a debate between male folks and women on the microblogging platform, but before that, Phyna already guessed that she will face backlash.
Phyna wrote; “Las las marry who get money oooh Or you try get money ooooh as a woman. E get why. (Ready for the drags)”
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Podcaster and brand influencer, Doyinsola David, better known as Doyin, has advised ladies not to marry without having their own money.
She said the biggest mistake a young woman can make is to depend entirely on a man, emphasizing that their primary goal should be to attain financial independence.
The Big Brother Naija two-time housemate issued the warning in a social media post while agreeing with Linda Ikeji’s comment about the need for women to make their own money.
Doyin wrote; “The biggest mistake you can make as a young lady is depending completely on a man. Attaining independence should be the first thing on your mind….before love, marriage or kids. MONEY FIRST!
If you don’t have your own money, a reasonable amount of money saved up. You’re NOT ready for marriage and most definitely NOT ready to have kids. You need your own money!!
Even when you have your money sef, after marriage just have one child first and watch what type of father he is before you start giving birth like a chicken. Only have the number of kids you know you can afford to cater for on your own. Life happens!
Don’t ever believe that lie of divorce is not an option because it is! We don’t pray for it but life happens. There is no better back up plan than having your own money! Not your husband’s money, YOUR OWN MONEY!”
